Antarctica Renews My Faith in Love: Film Review (Minor Spoilers)

For those who don’t know Antarctica is the sophmore effort of Israeli director Yair Hochner. Hochner, like Eytan Fox,img_0032 is re/defining queer film in Israel.  Both his movies, Good Boys (which I found disturbing and heartbreaking) and Antarctica have been the talk of the festival circuit since their respective releases. Hochner has also been instrumental in founding the first annual LGBTQI Film Festival in Telaviv, now on its third year.

Hochner’s movies are hauntingly beautiful and impossible to view only once.  In fact, I have watched Antarctica no less than 7 times in the last month and am currently going through unhappy withdrawal now that Here network is no longer screening it. I meant to write a review of the film while it was still available through Here online, but every time I sat down to watch it for the review, I simply got re-enthralled and found it hard to flatten the film out on paper.

Regular readers know that my film reviews try to be as in depth as possible and to avoid gushing b/c I want them to be useful to independent filmmakers who often link here to promote their films and documentaries. So I think you also know how good I think this movie is given that I’m telling you what a whack-a-mole I’ve been since not having instant access to it.

This trailer really doesn’t do the film justice, it is so much more than your average “who ends up with who” romantic p18-hcomedy. At its heart is an exploration of longing and love and what it costs to be honest with oneself. The characters who fail at the latter are just as critical to showing us what love is as those who succeed.

The story centers around Omer and Danny and their intersecting lives. When we first meet Danny, he is a newly out dancer with a crush on established dance icon Boaz. Unfortunately for Danny, Boaz “never” sleeps with the same man twice and prefers it if they are gone before he wakes up in the morning. Through a fluke involving a kitty, Omer leaves Boaz’s apartment before they hook up and just in time to set the stage for Danny to move in. Despite this mini-miracle, Danny’s 30 off-screen days with Boaz leave him broken and wounded.

The film begins in earnest 3 years later, when Danny, now an up and coming star in the dance world, is living with hisimg_9276 ex-boyfriend Ronen. Ronen is looking for the real thing while working on a story about alien abductees for an article for the newspaper for which he writes. For some reason, he thinks he’ll find true love online even tho he has already found it in the form of the young man he watches, and who watches him, at the library where he does his research. That young man, is Omer.

In the two days before Omer’s 30th birthday, Danny and Omer’s lives will intertwine around both Boaz and Ronen as well as Omer’s bestfriend, and Ronen’s internet hook up, Miki. (Miki, played by Yuval Raz, should be recognizable to fans of Good Boys. For people like me, traumatized by what happens to him in that movie and how the chance at love is lost as a result, it is nice to see p13-hhim playing someone safe and happy.)

In a parallel story, Omer’s sister Shirley tries to pick up and re-imagine her own life after canceling her wedding. Shirley works as a waitress in a gay and lesbian bar owned by Michal. In another off-screen romance that predates the time frame of the film, Shirley and Michal fall in love presumable causing the dissolution of her engagement. Michal wants desperately to create a life with Shirley that centers around her bar, the women who sing amazing folk songs in it, and the men and women who hookup there. While Shirley cares deeply for Michal, her new found desire is like a door to infinite possibilities that she img_9277wants to step through and find herself inside. She explains this to Michal with the simple question from which this film derives its title, “Will you go with me to Antarctica?”

This question has many meanings in the film. On the one hand, it represents the different stages that the characters are in, in their lives. Danny, Shirley, and Miki are all young queer people exploring what it means to be out. Danny’s path is tragic, partially because of his own naivete and partially b/c he lacks the initiative Shirley and Miki have in the film. His need to be loved outweighs his passive flirtation with independence, when independence is what he needs to attract the people he wants to love him so much.

Shirley gives up what might be true love to find herself, realizing that she still needs to grow up img_9622before settling down. She is blessed enough to have Michal, who promises to love her no matter how far she goes or who she becomes. In a way, Shirley and Danny are mirrors of each other, illustrating what could happen if Shirley got stuck in one place instead of trusting herself and love.

Miki, on other hand, is like neither of them. He is the young, flamboyant, guy who claims to attract everyone he wants and be bored with anyone who wants to much from him. On the surface, he is shallow and plastic, but soon discovers that he wants more than retail and clubbing. Quick conversations between him and his friends and co-workers show that despite all of his carefree pursuits, Miki would be happy to have the right someone around. He isn’t exactly ready for a relationship when it comes, but I think the events in Miki’s life during thisp12-h film, actually turn on a light that will ultimately compete with the strobe lights still flicking happily to the thump-a-thump in his head.

The “older” characters in the film are no less sorted when the movie begins. Despite his established writing career, well-traveled soul, and sense of direction in his life, Ronen is still looking for love in all the wrong places. At the very beginning of the film he hooks up with Boaz in a montage of Boaz’s one night stands. While Ronen leaves Boaz’s bed disgusted by his indifference, it does not stop him from hooking up with obviously incompatible Miki over the internet 3 years later. Though Ronen’s relationship with Miki seems more like a series of odd circumstances, in which they continue img_9242to hook up b/c of bumping into each other or needing companionship to a critical event in the film, Ronen still remains loyal to him even when his heart tells him that Omer is the one.

Omer, on the other hand, prefers his books to real relationships. While he does meet and go home with Boaz, presumably after encountering him at Michal’s bar, he doesn’t actually hookup with him. Their night ends abruptly when Omer figures out just how shallow Boaz actually appears to be.  Three years later, Omer is no more open to the real world.

Even though Omer spends his days reciprocating interested glances from Ronen in the library, he continues to go on a series of unsuccessful and dangerous blind dates instead of making a move. Thus, Omer and Danny go out for a while, but both seem to know it is just a relationship of convenience. Danny thinks Omer is too old and stuffy, and his heart is still broken and slightly attached to both Ronen and Boaz; p5-hOmer thinks Danny is an inexperienced kid. Omer’s other blind date is equally fruitless. He meets with a budding serial killer who belongs in a completely different film and yet is woven seamlessly into Antarctica by Hochner’s pure craft as a director. Like Good Boys, Hochner’s second film refuses to paint a picture of queer community minus the threats that surround it.

Even when Ronen finally does get up the nerve to ask Omer to accompany him on an interview, Omer’s wariness of real life almost stops it from happening. Their exchange in the car about whether or not to go off with strangers both highlights the risk one has to take to find love on the margins and the longing that both img_4583of them have for a simple, real, connection. Like the library, small moments between them in the car reinforce the idea that they are made for one another, just as equally small moments between Miki and Ronen let everyone know they are not. While Omer and Ronen go about their lives differently, the symbolism of books, aliens and alienation, and furtive connections surround them both throughout the film. The subtleties of the imagery is both a sign of the a great director and astute actors, of which this film has both in abundance.

Boaz, Michal, and Eiten round out the older cast as well-developed but less complex characters. Boaz is the non-committal one. A few minor scenes at the very beginning of the film intimate that Boaz is trying to fill the void that losing his place as theimg_0050 hot, praised, dancing star has left inside him. Michal is the loyal, pillar of the queer community, whose bar provides a relaxed place for the community to find itself and each other. She is like the sexy mama of the young community, making sure they have a safe place to become. And Eiten is the somewhat snarky man who ultimately ends up playing a pivotal role in Danny and Boaz’s lives.

The question Shirley asks about Antarctica is also at its most basic about the role of travel and displacement in these characters lives. Boaz, Ronen, and Omer have all left Israel at some point in their lives. Having been somewhere else has helped shape the way they see themselves and Israel. Their travel is both a comment on the nation, as a place made up of immigrants and refugees bound by the marginalization of global antisemitism (which in no way is a comment on the Palestinian-Israeli conflict within Israel), and on the queer community which is often made up of immigrants (people who move from rural to urban centers as well as across real and imagined borders) and refugees (people who have been exiled from their p17-hfamilies, towns, churches, etc) bound by the marginalization of homophobia. In the later, the promise of traveling to global queerscapes like London reflect a mythic sense of queer community in which Ronen and Omer will find true love and Boaz perpetual adoration. However, the promise of a queer mecca and the reality of a diverse metropolis ultimately proves that the isolation of immigration and any large queer center are their own complex systems to navigate. Ultimately until one sorts themselves, these places offer no more promise of community than anywhere else. As returnees, each of these characters sees the fallacies of the culture in which they live as well as that of the dream of utopia abroad. Danny and Shirley still have this lesson left to learn.

Finally, the question about Antarctica also has do with what we are willing to reach for in our lives. Shirley knows she hasimg_4508 to keep exploring herself in order for anything she builds with Michal or anyone else to have meaning. Omer and Danny are so stuck in the smallness that they both almost miss out on love. And Boaz and Miki are so afraid of the transient nature of physical beauty that they push love away to hold on to its plasticity for one more moment. In the midst of their growing fixidity, it takes a woman willing to go public about her alien abduction to show them they too can dare to be honest about their truths and trust that their are others who will find and love them.

It is hard to explain the beauty in which these stories unfold. Besides much of the symbolism and well-crafted “simple life” shots, there is a slowness in the pacing of this film that lends itself at once to the sadness of Danny and Michal and img_1510the “necessary” process of Ronen and Omer. Hochner’s direction not only keeps some of the characters from degenerating into stereotype, it also allows Antarctica to tackle complex storylines in a way that is deeply in touch with the human condition; yet the film is both light and funny at every turn. Things that should seem out of place, like a man asking if you can fit a body in the refrigerators for sale where Eiten works, or the send up to Divine in the figure of Omer and Shirley’s mother, or the potential alien landing at the end of the film, are all expertly woven into the story by Hochner so that you cannot imagine the film without them. In fact, the “alien landing” is itself the other side of the metaphor for love in this film.

Hochener’s notes on making the movie highlights the dedication he had to seeing the story not only come to life but also reflect all of the complexities of the characters and events in a way that highlight the magic of the love story at its center. The return of some of his actors from previous work and the commitment of more famous actors also shows how easily othersposterantarctica recognize his talent and the power of this script. Everyone involved brought passion and hope to the project that shows in each frame.

Ultimately, Antarctica asks its audience to love themselves and to trust that true love is out there waiting by showing a cast of brilliantly acted characters struggling with doing the same thing. While not everyone ends up sorted by the film’s end, this makes the love story at the center of Antarctica all the more powerful.

When Ronen grabs Omer in the street after Omer runs out of his own dysfunctional birthday party it is a kind of magic I cannot put into words. In that moment, they save each other with the faith only true love brings us. Not surprisingly, neither of them can articulate what it means to have finally found the home for which they have been yearning all this time. Instead they take turns thanking one another and asking sheepishly “for what?” But we all know why they are grateful. And anyone with a heart is equally so by film’s end.


So thank you Yair Hochner, for giving us such a beautiful love story with characters who are strong enough to recognize and embrace love no matter how long the journey takes. This movie is truly special.

If Antarcitica is playing a festival in your area, it is not to be missed.



10 thoughts on “Antarctica Renews My Faith in Love: Film Review (Minor Spoilers)

    • sure but the email you left doesn’t work. You’re welcome to reprint w/ the apropriate link back site the author as p. susurro

    • welcome to the blog Emily. I just saw I can’t think straight and I wasn’t as impressed as I thought I was going to be . . . It was good tho, just not that different from most other films with a similar theme. I did like the World Unseen tho, I need to watch it again b/c I saw it in one of those inattentive moods. Thanks for reminding me that I need to make sure to see it again. 😀

      I’m thinking of doing a “favorite GLBTQ films” meme but the problem is that I have too many I absolutely love. (Including 2 Girls in Love, When Night is Falling, & Nina’s Heavenly Delights, which will always be my three fav lesbian films I think)

    • welcome to the blog sara. I think it is coming out soon, it’s starting to show up on large DVD retail sites. 😀

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